Cup of Coffee Story: The Unfaithful Pt. 2

Hello! This is the continuation of the story. It's a lot to tell, it's been difficult to process everything, to function well when I undergo such event and that is why I manage to share this in my blog. The original blog is in this link SPECIAL BLOGSODE IN BLOGSPOT!

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"There's more story about what happened, but I will not disclose any more here and just do it to another blog as the sequel and finale. I admit it was not that easy and you know relationship aren't perfect and so do we. But I believe CHEATING is not a MISTAKE, it is a CHOICE. The relationship with him was good, tough and a roller coaster ride especially we're working on a cruise ship. My contract is longer than his so he goes vacation ahead of me, he is 2 months on and 2 months off, 7 months on and 2 months off for me, one of the factors why it happened or problem the problem is with him something I didn't foresee.

How did I found out? August 19, 2016 the same day we signed on, we slept together August 18, 2016 in the same room, in the same bed. Seafarer have a day to rest before getting back on board. August 19, 2017 it's the same day I found out that he got engaged and as far as I know WE ARE STILL TOGETHER! I know it's not right to snoop, but if I don't follow my guts I wont' get to know about it. Meaning he is cheating on both of us! What a fucking loser! I found his go pro camera and there it is the video of his proposal. I was like "WTF is this?!" I was in his cabin, on the floor watching him propose to the woman I didn't know about like I never existed at all. A lot of question went running to my head, like are they been together that long for him to propose? Who is she? What's is our relationship then? Our 1 year? I didn't cry, but I'm shaking to what unfolds in front of my eyes, my heart breaks in silence. My feelings are unwavering and I know he also ask me for marriage just last year 2015 of December 5. But in my surprise all of that was one juicy BIG FAT LIE. I feel used, betrayed, broken. All those times he is fucking 2 girls, he is been with someone else for the 2 months vacation we had or probably before we go on vacation or even before that! I'm so angry! One thing he can eat is his shitty lies and you can welcome him in the CHEATER CLUB! He is a cheater and a liar. We even planned that we will be together during those 2 months vacation. I'll be coming down to Croatia to meet his family and formalize everything. I was suppose to come to his country and spend my vacation with him all was planned before we head on vacation. I'm back in the Philippines, taking care of all the paper works to get a visa. Driving back and forth then suddenly he said he have some issues that I won't be able to go. Guess why? He have a girlfriend in Croatia so going there will conflict everything, he is already fooling around with another woman which I didn't know and most probably she is the main reason why he is having an issue. Again, he is FOOLING AROUND with me and her. Can't blame the girl, probably she doesn't know about me and he is cheating. I guess when you don't speak English its easy to fool someone, but not me. I got evidence of his infidelity when I know that he is with that woman. She might know and doesn't care about it or she doesn't know but can't speak English and he is the type that can manipulate and tell more effective lies. I have other source of course.

During my "moving on" process, I feel pitiful of myself and I've wasted my love, time and effort to this guy! Well you already know why. During our vacation I always want to think positive. He rarely call, text or even video chat with me thinking he might be busy with family and trainings and shoving the idea that he is already with someone else. These his favorite line "I'm busy working on some stuff back home. I know I've been too clingy, negative and call him like 1000 times, because he never have time to call or text me back. Now we all know why, HE IS BUSY PLAYING WITH ANOTHER WOMAN or FIANCE, all the dramas and excuses he told me and all those 'i miss you' and 'i love you' are just fucking empty words, lies. Which he is also lying to his "fiance". Man, I remember someone told me he is so good at acting like he is in pain. That person told me HE CAN STEAL LEONARDO DE CARPIO'S OSCAR AWARD for being the best actor of all time. So a round of applause for this man. I've been warned before and I didn't listen. My heart got broken from the man I thought I'll be with for the rest of my life, but I was wrong and good thing it didn't happen either, thank God for that I was save for future regrets. Knowing that he can do that to me and his fiance (poor girl), what more when they got married? Always going to do that behind any girl's back? Regardless married or not? What a shame!

After watching that video, I approached him and ask him very calmly "Are you engaged?" He smiled and it didn't surprise me at all when he denied it, HE FUCKINGLIED about his engagement and lied about the woman. Poor people, poor girl! He even told me I'm crazy the same words he said to his EX before me. I said to cut the crap out because I already saw the video. After that he told me the truth, but that doesn't make him the good guy, he denied his fiance, he denied everything still unforgivable. If I am that girl, I'll just leave and go, find someone else better. That's the time I cried can't hold the pain anymore; I wanted to punch him in the face. He played me and he played with my feelings, he played with that girl. CHEATER! CHEATER! The next day and the following days I cried my eyes out and all he can say is SORRY, I FUCKED IT ALL UP. According to my source it is his favourite line. so I didn't believe it because people who fuck another girl is not a mistake, you can't say you fucked it all up. Well you did actually! it's an fucking CHOICE! I decided to end the relationship, it didn't even exist after all. If ever we really have a relationship thinking about it now I want to choke myself from that time because I believed in a liar and I ask myself why am I with him in the the first place? I wasted my effort, heart, energy to someone who really doesn't love me at all. But I shoved it all that because I love the person, my mistake was loving him. I terminate our couple status in the ship and ask for transfer, but got rejected. It wasn't easy being in the same place with him so I have to cope up with the situation. BOTH OF US ARE ON BOARD and I have to deal with him everyday. Since I'm in denial that time I can't moved on I wanted him to stay with me, I wanted to stay with him. Days had passed and I admit I'm pretty jealous with that girl, but he said a lot bad things about her and I was like what??? (Even we broke up, we're still together and I'm still staying at his cabin.) He is bad mouthing his fiance. He said, she party a lot, she is too young, she is stubborn, I am not sure if she is the one, I am not sure if we will get married. He said all these things and I recorded them all. Everything he usually do with me whenever we are far away or whatever he say before we were together, he did the same thing to her. I saw everything in his phone, I saw it all everything he always lied to me about. Everyday his lies grow bigger and bigger and he still can manage a good, smiling face. What a creep! Like it is nothing and I know he is also lying with his fiance, YES GIRL HE IS LYING TO YOU. Somehow, I ask myself did he ever feel guilty or feel ashamed of himself to cover a lie for another life or he will continue to lie just to get what he wants. I felt bad somehow for him, but probably I shouldn't be. Anyways, there's a lot more to my story so wait for the part two of the blog or the final sequel!"

XOXO

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